Montpensier, Anne-Marie-Louise d'Orléans, duchesse de, 1627-1693
Enough is as good as a feast! Though we stand in no superstitious awe
of orthography, we can but laud Mademoiselle de Scudéry for having
crossed lances in its favour. And well might she wish that to the first
elements of an education might be added a certain amount of building
material suitable for a foundation so solid that something more serious
than dancing steps and chiffons might at a later date be introduced
into the brains of young girls.
Seriously, [she said] is there anything stranger than the way
they act when they prepare to enter upon the ordinary education
of woman? One does not wish women to be coquettish or gallant,
and yet they are permitted to learn carefully everything that
has anything to do with gallantry; though they are not permitted
to know anything that might fortify their virtue or occupy their
minds. All the great scoldings given them in their first youth
because they are not proper[19]--that is to say dressed in good
taste, and because they do not apply themselves to their dancing
lessons and their singing lessons--do they not prove what I say?
And the strangest of all is that this should be so when a woman
cannot, with any propriety, dance more than five or six years
of all the years of her life! And this same person who has been
taught to do nothing but to dance is obliged to give proof of
judgment to the day of her death; and though she is expected to
speak properly, even to her last sigh, nothing is done--of all
that might be done--to make her speak more agreeably, nor to act
with more care for her conduct; and when the manner in which these
ladies pass their lives is considered, it might be said that they
seem to have been forbidden to have reason and good sense, and that
they were put in the world only that they might sleep, be fat, be
handsome, do nothing, and say nothing but silly things.... I know
one who sleeps more than twelve hours every day, who takes three or
four hours to dress herself, or, to speak more to the point: not to
dress herself--for more than half of the time given to dressing is
passed either in doing nothing or in doing over what has been done.
Then she employs fully two or three hours in consuming her divers
repasts; and all the rest of the time is spent receiving people to
whom she does not know what to say, or in paying visits to people
who do not know what to say to her.
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