Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of womanGrimké, Sarah
Religion
Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of woman
Grimké, Sarah
Women -- History; Women -- United States; Women's rights -- United States
I have sometimes been astonished and grieved at the servitude of
women, and at the little idea many of them seem to have of their own
moral existence and responsibilities. A woman who is asked to sign a
petition for the abolition of slavery in the District of Columbia, or
to join a society for the purpose of carrying forward the annihilation
of American slavery, or any other great reformation, not unfrequently
replies, ‘My husband does not approve of it.’ She merges her rights and
her duties in her husband, and thus virtually chooses him for a savior
and a king, and rejects Christ as her Ruler and Redeemer. I know some
women are very glad of so convenient a pretext to shield themselves
from the performance of duty; but there are others, who, under a
mistaken view of their obligations as wives, submit conscientiously to
this species of oppression, and go mourning on their way, for want of
that holy fortitude, which would enable them to fulfil their duties as
moral and responsible beings, without reference to poor fallen man. O
that woman may arise in her dignity as an immortal creature, and speak,
think and act as unto God, and not unto man!
There is, perhaps, less bondage of mind among the poorer classes,
because their sphere of duty is more contracted, and they are deprived
of the means of intellectual culture, and of the opportunity of
exercising their judgment, on many moral subjects of deep interest and
of vital importance. Authority is called into exercise by resistance,
and hence there will be mental bondage only in proportion as the
faculties of mind are evolved, and woman feels herself as a rational
and intelligent being, on a footing with man. But women, among the
lowest classes of society, so far as my observation has extended,
suffer intensely from the brutality of their husbands. Duty as well as
inclination has led me, for many years, into the abodes of poverty and
sorrow, and I have been amazed at the treatment which women receive
at the hands of those, who arrogate to themselves the epithet of
_protectors_. Brute force, the law of violence, rules to a great extent
in the poor man’s domicil; and woman is little more than his drudge.
They are less under the supervision of public opinion, less under the
restraints of education, and unaided or unbiased by the refinements of
polished society. Religion, wherever it exists, supplies the place of
all these; but the real cause of woman’s degradation and suffering in
married life is to be found in the erroneous notion of her inferiority
to man; and never will she be rightly regarded by herself, or others,
until this opinion, so derogatory to the wisdom and mercy of God, is
exploded, and woman arises in all the majesty of her womanhood, to
claim those rights which are inseparable from her existence as an
immortal, intelligent and responsible being.
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