Letters, sentences and maximsChesterfield, Philip Dormer Stanhope, Earl of
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Letters, sentences and maxims
Chesterfield, Philip Dormer Stanhope, Earl of
Conduct of life; Maxims
Philip Dormer Stanhope did not experience in his youth either of those
influences which are so important in the lives of most of us. His
mother died before he could know her, and his father was one of those
living nonentities whom his biographer sums up in saying that “We know
little more of him than that he was an Earl of Chesterfield.” Indeed,
what influence there may have been was of a negative kind, for he had,
if anything, an avowed dislike for his son. Naturally under these
conditions he had to endure the slings and arrows of fortune alone and
uncounselled. One domestic influence was allowed him in the mother of
his mother, whose face still looks out at us from the pages of Dr.
Maty, engraved by Bartolozzi from the original of Sir Peter Lely--a
face sweet, intellectual, open--over the title of Gertrude Savile,
Marchioness of Halifax. She it was who undertook, at any rate to some
small degree, the rearing of her daughter’s child. Lord Chesterfield is
rather a Savile than a Stanhope.
He heard French from a Normandy nurse in his cradle, and he received,
when he grew a little older, “such a general idea of the sciences as
it is a disgrace to a gentleman not to possess.” But it is not till
he gets to Cambridge at the age of eighteen that we hear anything
definite. He writes to his tutor of former days, whom he seems to have
made a real friend, from Trinity Hall:
“I find the college where I am infinitely the best in the
university; for it is the smallest, and filled with lawyers
who have lived in the world, and know how to behave. Whatever
may be said to the contrary, there is certainly very little
debauchery in the university, especially amongst people of
fashion, for a man must have the inclinations of a porter to
endure it here.”
Thirty-six years later he draws for his son this picture of his
college-life:
“As I make no difficulty of confessing my past errors, where
I think the confession may be of use to you, I will own that,
when I first went to the university, I drank and smoked,
notwithstanding the aversion I had to wine and tobacco, only
because I thought it genteel, and that it made me look a man.”
This touch of nature it is interesting to find in one who gave so
much to the Graces. But to get at what he really did we may take the
following:
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