Life and religion of the Hindoos. : $b With a sketch of my life and experience.Gangooly, Joguth Chunder
Religion
Life and religion of the Hindoos. : $b With a sketch of my life and experience.
Gangooly, Joguth Chunder
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs
The chess, cards, and other games, similar and superior to backgammon,
are the prominent ones. But here, again, age and relation are to be
considered. A gentleman does not play with his brother or children, or
any nearest relation young or old; for it is impolite to play a game
with or before grown-up friends; and, on the other hand, it is showing
a shallow character to engage in a game with children. Again, the
members of the low castes do not join in the sport with the Brahmun,
lest they come so near his sacred person as to touch him with their
foot, or to speak wildly to him in the heat of the action. Particular
care is taken to teach young boys the art of writing letters to
their friends. As each person is to be addressed by peculiar words,
expressive of age, position, and relation, etc., there are some fixed
rules which are consulted by the writer. In English, “My dear” answers
almost every purpose, except in a lawyer’s letter. It is applicable to
father, uncle, mother, brother, husband, wife, sister, brother-in-law,
priest, children, friends, debtor, creditor, etc.; but in Bengalee
the system is quite different. The writer must discriminate between a
father and brother-in-law, by addressing each according to the relation
he holds to the one who addresses him. In writing to father, mother,
uncle, oldest brother and sister, father and mother-in-law, and priest,
the address is “Right adorable,” and the writer’s name in all cases is
used at the beginning. The address to those younger in years is, the
“Object of blessing.” A man addresses the father or mother-in-law of
his son or daughter by a distinct phrase, which _could not be_
applied to any other. Low castes observe these rules while writing
among themselves; but in case they write to a Brahmun, young or old,
the phrase, “Most adorable,” or, “Obedience to thee is my joy,” etc.,
is used. The following is a sample of a father’s letter to his son:--
“OBJECT OF BLESSING:--
“Know and accept my good wishes and blessing from this. For thy
spiritual and temporal welfare I solicit the grace of God unceasingly,
and in so doing consists my substantial joy,” etc.
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