Proust, Marcel, 1871-1922 -- Criticism and interpretation
Knowing the intensity of his interest in and sympathy with humble
lives, the suggestion of snobbishness in connexion with such a man is
ridiculous. Proust, like all great artists, needed access to all human
types. It is one of the drawbacks of our modern civilisation that the
opportunities for varied social intercourse are limited and beset with
conventional prejudices. No man went further than he did to surmount
these. He knew people of the “monde” as he knew others. As he writes in
_Sodome_:
Je n’avais jamais fait de différence entre les ouvriers,
les bourgeois et les grands seigneurs, et j’aurais pris
indifféremment les uns et les autres pour amis avec une
certaine préférence pour les ouvriers, et après cela pour
les grands seigneurs, non par goût, mais sachant qu’on
peut exiger d’eux plus de politesse envers les ouvriers
qu’on ne l’obtient de la part des bourgeois, soit que les
grands seigneurs ne dédaignent pas les ouvriers comme font
les bourgeois, ou bien parce qu’ils sont volontiers polis
envers n’importe qui, comme les jolies femmes heureuses de
donner un sourire qu’elles savent accueilli avec tant de
joie.
His friends were in fact of all classes, but his friendship was
accorded only on his own terms, and a condition of it was the capacity
to bear hearing the truth. His friends knew themselves the better for
knowing him, for he was impatient of the slightest insincerity or
disingenuousness and could not tolerate pretence. Lies tired him. In a
letter he alluded thus to one whom we both knew well:
Ce que je lui reproche, c’est d’être un menteur. Il
a fait ma connaissance à la faveur d’un mensonge et
depuis n’a guère cessé. Il trouve toujours le moyen de
gâter ses qualités par ces petits mensonges qu’il croit
l’avantager—tout petits et quelquefois énormes.
Proust’s insistence on truthfulness and sincerity caused him more than
once to renounce lifelong associations. His sensibility was so delicate
that a gesture or a note in the voice revealed to him a motive, perhaps
slight and passing, of evasion or pretence. He was exacting about
sincerity only. In other respects his tolerance was so wide that a hard
truth from his lips, so far from wounding, stimulated. To his friends
he was frankness itself, and spoke his mind without reserve. I once
asked him to tell me if there were not some one, some friend of his, to
whom I could talk about him. There was so much I wanted to know, and on
the all too rare occasions when he was well enough to see me there was
never time. In answer to this he wrote me:
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