A kindly critic in the _Athenæum_ of April 1890, immediately after her
death, described her conversation as having a charm that was
indescribable and perhaps unique. This was probably so. In her, judgment
and good sense were as solid as her shafts of wit were keen. She never
was the victim, happily for her, of the unreasoning adulation, which so
cruelly affected the last years of the life of the most humorous as well
as the wittiest Irishman whom it has ever been my good fortune to meet.
I knew Father Healy when his life was spent among his friends. I knew
him also when he was the idol of a flattering throng, who knew not what
they worshipped. Often have I seen him crushed into silence by the
persistence of admirers who would never let him utter three words on any
subject without beginning to laugh before he could get out with the
fourth. Mary Boyle, perhaps because she frequented the society of only
those who were friends, was not expected to drop pearls whenever she
spoke.
In her letters it is possible that an equal charm might be found. But it
would require some patience in seeking; for her handwriting had
undoubted peculiarities. “We had a committee on your letter, dear Mary,”
once wrote an intimate friend. “We placed it on a table and sat round
it, and by dint of looking at it from every point of view we really made
out a good deal.” Notwithstanding the difficulty, however, some of those
who, like Charles Dickens, Lord Tennyson, and Browning, loved to
correspond with her, kept up an exchange of letters which ended only
with death.
If my aunt had lived to finish these chapters, the title she desired to
apply to them might have been appropriate. As it is, they can scarcely
be considered an autobiography. There are lacking, too, references to
several houses[2] where she was a frequent guest, and to many circles of
friends whose gatherings she helped to make merry. I miss, especially,
allusions to Ireland, and above all to that happy shore, “washed by the
farthest” lake, where to my knowledge she spent many days of unalloyed
enjoyment. Her close friendship with Lady Marian Alford, the “your
Marian” of Lord Tennyson’s verses, is not mentioned.[3] But of the
society which Lady Marian loved to gather around her Mary Boyle was a
welcome member. It was at Ashridge that some years before the present
Bishop of Ely put on Lawn there flashed forth one of those keen answers
with which she often delighted her hearers. They were discussing some
important point of High Church—Low Church—Moderate Church. As luncheon
was announced a prudent critic of the discussion said, “Well, after all,
it is very true that _via media securum iter_.” “You don’t know what
that means, Mary?” “Oh, yes, I do! that is what Lord Alwynne says,
‘caution is the way to secure a mitre.’”
Footnote 2:
_See_ Supplementary Chapter.
Footnote 3:
_See_ Supplementary Chapter.
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