After my father’s death in 1868 Mary Boyle established herself in a
small house in South Audley Street. James Russell Lowell, one of the
many brilliant men who both got and gave pleasure by a visit to her tiny
rooms, says of it: “No knock could surprise the modest door of what she
called her _bonbonnière_, for it opened and still opens to let in as
many distinguished persons, and what is better, as many devoted friends
as any in London.” This was written in 1888, the last year of her
occupancy, and two years before her death. “Miss Mary Boyle,” he goes on
to say, “bears no discoverable relation to dates. As nobody ever knew
how old the Countess of Desmond was, so nobody can tell how young Miss
Mary Boyle is. However long she may live, hers can never be that most
dismal of fates to outlive her friends while cheerfulness, kindliness,
cleverness, and all the other good nesses have anything to do with the
making of them.” She certainly had the faculty, a somewhat rare one, of
making as well as keeping friends. I have met in the wee chamber, which
she was wont to call a drawing-room, men of three generations all coming
within the category to which Mr Lowell refers.
[Illustration:
“THE BONBONNIÈRE”, 22 SOUTH AUDLEY STREET.
]
Nor were her guests all of one sex. Neither her cleverness nor her
kindliness alone would have sufficed to keep the friendship of the many
women who loved her till her death. Together they did. So her rooms were
filled with those who were lovely and brilliant as well as those who
were learned and clever. The friendship which Mary Boyle maintained with
men of distinction in many spheres of life lasted for a long period of
years. Mr Lowell in the passage I have quoted was preparing for
publication some letters which were written to her by Walter Savage
Landor.[4] Those who wish to read these letters in full may find them in
the _Century Magazine_ for February 1888. “They are most interesting,”
says Lowell, “and have more clearly the stamp of the writer’s character
than many of Goethe’s to the Frau von Stein. They give an amiable
picture of him without his armour and in an undress, though never a
careless or slovenly one.” They are too long to be set out at length
here, but I may cite a few brief passages. The opening sentence of the
first especially commends itself to me. Lowell thinks it was written in
1842:
“Your letter is a most delightful ramble. I believe I must come and be
your writing-master. Certainly if I did nothing else by drilling, I
should make rank and file stand closer.”... “You ask me if I have ever
seen Burleigh? Yes, nearly half a century ago. Nevertheless I have not
forgotten its magnificence. No place ever struck me so forcibly. And
then the grounds!”...
Footnote 4:
_See_ Supplementary Chapter.
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