Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
For two years after her mother's death, she remained wholly in Boston,
enjoying part of the time a new privilege, which she greatly
prized,--admission to the best school for young ladies then in New
England, or the country,--Dr. Park's. That she would improve such an
opportunity to the best of her ability, we need not say. Of her
proficiency as a scholar, there are no particular proofs. She was never
a prodigy, but she never slighted opportunity or duty. She appeared
always well, distinguished at least for faithful preparation and uniform
accuracy. And especially was she distinguished for moral excellence. She
was the friend and favorite of all. If petty difficulties occurred, Mary
Pickard was the peacemaker. Her impartiality, amiableness, kindness to
all, and perfect truthfulness, endeared her to the teacher and all the
pupils; from several of whom we have had the testimony, that no one ever
exerted a better influence upon any school.
The earliest letters we have from Mary were written in 1813, the year
after her mother's death, and about the time of her first going to
school in Boston. They are the letters of a school-girl, but not of a
child. While there is in them no indication of remarkable powers, to
which she did not pretend, nor her friends for her, they show a habit of
reflection and power of discrimination, with a choice of topics not
usual at that age. A few passages may be given, very simple and
juvenile, but indicative of character.
"_Boston, February 27, 1813._
"MY DEAR N----:
"I am determined another day shall not pass before I answer
your letter. I think it is the best way, when we receive a
letter, to sit down immediately and answer it; at least I find
it so, though I do not always practise it.... We talk so much
when we meet, that there is little left to write, and I am now
at a loss what to say. The folly of the fashionable world is an
old story, and if not, is too _vast_ a subject for our limited
views of it. Of our school plan we have said much, but we can
say more. I had no idea that such insignificant beings as we
are, in comparison, could ever afford matter for so much
conversation as there has been on this subject. Although
opinions could not alter the case, yet it is certainly very
satisfactory to know that our doings are approved by those
whose good opinion we value. I look forward with much pleasure
to the day on which we shall commence our studies. We shall
feel very awkward at first, but it will soon be over, and then
we must endeavor to keep ourselves exempt from the condemnation
that falls on the whole school for the faults of two or
three....
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