Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
"I am reading 'Temper,' and like it much better than I expected
to, having heard nothing in its favor, and, besides that, being
_prejudiced_ against it. I have condemned prejudice in others,
but never felt the effects of it before; I dislike it now more
than ever,--it is certainly a most unreasonable thing. I like
some of the characters very much, and it is not as yet very
tedious, but contains many good lessons. I find many that I can
apply to myself, and (as usual) some to other people. It
cannot, however, be compared to 'The Absentee' or 'Vivian.'
Novels are generally said to be improper books for young
people, as they take up the time which ought to be employed in
more useful pursuits; which is certainly very true; but as a
recreation to the mind, such books as these cannot possibly do
any hurt, as they are good moral lessons. Indeed, I think there
is scarcely any book from which some good may not be derived;
though it cannot be expected that any young person has judgment
enough to leave all the bad and take only the good, when there
is a great proportion of the former. I know we are too young to
hold up an opinion of our own, independent of the superior
judgment of those older, and this I would not do. I have
collected mine from observation, and, if it is not right, would
thank any one to correct it; nor would I offer it at all to any
one but you, or those of my own age."
That last sentiment will seem _very_ juvenile to many young people of
the present day, but it is none the worse for that. Nor by this writer
was the expression of such sentiments restricted to that age; for
modesty and deference, combined with self-respect and decision, were
marked features and peculiar graces of the character we are presenting.
They are features and graces of a strong mind. Superciliousness, in
youth or maturity, is a sign of weakness. And it says little for the
improvement or the promise of the present, if it be true that respect
for experience, reverence for age, and meekness of expression, are rare
qualities in the young. Mary was still young, when she wrote to her
father,--"I am no advocate for destroying that delicacy which forms, or
ought to form, so great a part of the female character. But such a
degree of it as is not compatible with sufficient firmness to command
one's self in danger, appears to me to be false modesty, or 'sickly
sensibility of soul,'--beneath the dignity of beings endowed with power
for higher feelings." Here is that union of humility and courage which
marked her whole course.
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