We like to prophesy good of children, and are always sorry when a
stream of nonsense comes to disappoint hopes aroused by some chance
repartee. My pupil seldom awakens such hopes, and will never cause
such regrets: for he never utters an unnecessary word, or wastes breath
in babble to which he knows nobody will listen. If his ideas have a
limited range, they are nevertheless clear. If he knows nothing by
heart, he knows a great deal from experience. If he does not read
ordinary books so well as other children, he reads the book of nature
far better. His mind is in his brain, and not at his tongue's end. He
has less memory than judgment. He can speak only one language, but he
understands what he says: and if he does not say it as well as another,
he can do things far better than they can.
He does not know the meaning of custom or routine. What he did
yesterday does not in any wise affect his actions of to-day. He never
follows a rigid formula, or gives way in the least to authority or to
example. Everything he does and says is after the natural fashion of
his age. Expect of him, therefore, no formal speeches or studied
manners, but always the faithful expression of his own ideas, and a
conduct arising from his own inclinations.
You will find he has a few moral ideas in relation to his own concerns,
but in regard to men in general, none at all. Of what use would these
last be to him, since a child is not yet an active member of society?
Speak to him of liberty, of property, even of things done by common
consent, and he may understand you. He knows why his own things belong
to him and those of another person do not, and beyond this he knows
nothing. Speak to him of duty and obedience, and he will not know what
you mean. Command him to do a thing, and he will not understand you.
But tell him that if he will do you such and such a favor, you will do
the same for him whenever you can, and he will readily oblige you; for
he likes nothing better than to increase his power, and to lay you
under obligations he knows to be inviolable. Perhaps, too, he enjoys
being recognized as somebody and accounted worth something. But if
this last be his motive, he has already left the path of nature, and
you have not effectually closed the approaches to vanity.
If he needs help, he will ask it of the very first person he meets, be
he monarch or man-servant; to him one man is as good as another.
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