Modern daughters : $b Conversations with various American girls and one manBlack, Alexander
General
Modern daughters : $b Conversations with various American girls and one man
Black, Alexander
Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- United States -- Social conditions
“I had supposed that there was but one answer to that old question:
Because they have not been trained by getting on and off vehicles while
the vehicles are in motion. A person who gets on a vehicle while it is
in motion learns at once that the forward handle is the only safe handle
to hold either in getting on or getting off. The forward handle is the
one that preserves your balance should the vehicle start while you are
getting on or off.”
“Yes,” I said, “that is the old answer, too. But it does not answer
enough. I have disproved its accuracy a score of times. I have seen
women who knew better by precept, by example, and by experience get off
backward, as if obeying some fatalistic impulse. The other day a woman
who stepped off a car in my presence, firmly grasping the wrong handle,
laughed and said, ‘There! that’s the wrong handle, but I can’t help
it!’ That illustrates what I mean. She could not tell why she _had_ to
take the wrong handle, which, if the car had been going in the other
direction would have demanded the other hand. Your theory at best would
only explain why women do not get off rightly. It does not explain why
nine hundred and ninety-nine out of a thousand get off wrongly. It would
be well enough if the proportions were even, if the habit seemed like a
matter of chance. But quite plainly it is not a matter of chance. There
is a strange, and, as yet, unexplained impulse to which women yield when
the moment of choice comes. Every day I see women get off the wrong way
at real inconvenience. They are like Jerome K. Jerome’s stage villain who
doesn’t want to be a villain, who is not profited by being a villain, but
who, quite uncomplainingly, goes on being the villain in obedience to
the unities. Once I thought I had grasped the thing, which you must know
gave me a moment of superior comfort. A coach or a car, I said to myself,
generally stops at a point beyond that at which the passenger really
wishes to alight, as at the further curb, and in getting off and spurning
the vehicle, as it were, the woman passenger, acting with primitive
directness, turns her back upon it at the moment of alighting. But I have
repeatedly seen women get off a trolley-car at a near corner when they
had to turn about and walk in the direction the car was going, and they
faced the rear of the car when they got off just as they do under all
other circumstances. It is extraordinary. You must not think the inquiry
trivial. It is not merely a question of a minor physical habit. There
certainly is some momentous psychological significance under it all,
something with a deep meaning if we only could get at it.”
“Perhaps this backwardness has something to do with woman’s confusion as
to right and left.”
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