Modern daughters : $b Conversations with various American girls and one manBlack, Alexander
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Modern daughters : $b Conversations with various American girls and one man
Black, Alexander
Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- United States -- Social conditions
“Do you know that it would be a great relief, if not a real comfort, to a
man in certain circumstances if he could know just when a woman was out
of the game? His perplexity in the matter of the greatest game of all,
when he does not know whether she really is playing or only is loitering
about with the players, sometimes is one of the most distressing
spectacles in life.”
[Illustration]
“It seems to me,” said the Left-Over Girl, with a little shrug, “that he
generally should be able to tell whether she is playing or not. As for
knowing whether she ever is going to play any more, that seems to me like
more knowledge than he is entitled to.”
“Possibly; but as I have suggested, it would save much time and many
doubts, if nothing more,—reduce the sum of popular skepticism. And even
the spectator, who is not presumed to be in the way of playing, might
have a simple human curiosity in the matter.”
[Illustration]
“Oh, the spectator always has curiosity, and the spectator is an element
to be counted, too; there are so many of them, and they influence the
players in one way or another so much. But I don’t think the spectators
have any more right than the players to know when any one in particular
is out of the game for good.”
“As for that, I much doubt whether any one is to be counted as out of the
game for good. I heard yesterday of a Miss Nottingby who has just been
married at the age of eighty-three. One never can tell. But that is not
the point. It is the attitude of mind that counts. That a woman should
think that she is out of the game, or have decided definitely that she
will not play any more, must be of great importance even when the fact is
not known, as we must suppose generally happens. My point is that if the
facts were more generally known various beneficent results might accrue.”
“To whom?”
“To all of us, including the seceders. The uncertainty breeds cynicism.
Of course I know that there is something piquing about the mystery
surrounding the motives of the unmarried, especially the motives of the
unmarried woman. But although this is so entertaining in itself, although
the new old maid is the most cheerful, the most useful, and the most
fascinating sphinx of the century, I feel at times as if there may be
something disintegrating in her complacence and in the complacence of
society regarding her.”
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“How good it is of you to be so altruistically grieved!”
“Why don’t you ask me why I am saying this to you?”
“Because I know, and because it is so much more amusing to have you say
it unassisted.”
“Now, do you know that I should have expected to find you superior to a
proclivity so purely feminine as that. To make him say things unassisted!
From the dawn of time woman has delighted to do that.”
There was a haze of thought in her eyes. “I dare say you never have
stopped to think that when he is assisted he says so much more than he
means.”
“I thought you were going to say, ‘than he ought to.’”
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