Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
At least, it is evident that in the immediate future the home is not
going to be re-established without effort. Women will have to make great
sacrifice to surrender in every direction the new power of controlling
and spending money which now they are enjoying. And for this reason, even
if for no other, many women almost certainly will seek to hold their
places in the labour world and keep on working for themselves. Therefore,
it is, I think, safe to expect that to some limited extent the present
extension of women’s employment outside the home will be permanent when
peace is established.
Certainly it is unnecessary for me to say, after what I have written in
the earlier chapters of my book, how exceedingly I regret the permanence
of conditions that can seem good only in an industrial society. In my
opinion the working of women will be the greatest of the many disasters
that are likely to follow and remain from the war. I wish I had the power
to prevent it. I do not, however, see any way in which this can be done.
For one thing, if the desires of women are being set in a direction away
from the home, this, as I have just said, must count as the strongest
factor of all. What women want to do is what they are likely in the end
to do.
So many women have been for long, and still are, suffering from the
delusion that conditions which industrialism, with all its failures in
the art of life, first established, and which war now has made necessary,
are an advantage to be maintained after the need of war has made them
unnecessary. This is the great mistake. I would emphasise again what I
have shown in an earlier chapter,[88] that conditions which act against
the home and marriage (always dependent on the individual home) are sure
proof of social instability. Such conditions are centuries old; all
this flood of change is bringing nothing that is new. In all periods of
unsettled life the individual home and the family have been threatened.
The primitive form of marriage, the maternal form, where the husband
visited the wife in her own home, is very near to the most modern
suggestions for the readjustment of marriage. And the heavy working of
women is a further sign of disturbance and of primitive conditions of
life. It is a step backward, not a step forward. Few women, however,
realise that this is so. Perhaps this explains why so many among them are
talking and behaving to-day as if no more babies were desired to be born.
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