Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
How far this will be carried I do not profess to say. Women will have
a fresh power to refuse the position of wife and mother; thus it seems
likely that there may be an increased option against marriage in its true
and binding form. And closely connected with the independent position of
women will be the great shortage, for the next decade, of marriageable
men, due to the killing and disablements of war. It will be a world in
which the proportion of women will be very high. And although it would
be folly to estimate precisely how this great numerical strength of
one sex will act, whether it will strengthen women’s position, or, as
it equally well may, will lessen their importance in a society crowded
with unwanted women, it is plain that it must directly affect the sexual
relationships. Women, accustomed when young to control their own lives
and able to be self-supporting, will not only find it much more difficult
to marry, but they will be in a position to get along economically
without marriage. To every married woman there are likely to be three or
four unmarried ones.[89] It will also probably be a period of poverty.
The economic stress which war causes will almost necessarily continue
in the years when we shall all be compelled to meet the huge task of
national recovery that peace must bring. It is possible that for some
years it will be more difficult to maintain a family than it has ever
been before. This will be a third factor acting against marriage, and
tending to maintain as permanent the class of energetic, not strongly
maternal and undomesticated women workers.[90]
In different directions also causes very much the same may possibly be
acting to the same end. The desires of men as well as the desires of
women may be affected, and be turned from marriage and the duties of the
family and the home. Many men will not come back out of the hell of war
the same men that entered it. It may not be easy to plan life on the old
rules, the safe customs of civilisation may well count for less. Some
men will not want to return to the posts kept open for them by women; to
sell tablecloths to fussy women, or to spend dull days in offices adding
columns of figures and addressing envelopes, may not appear “a man’s job”
to men who have met the stark facts of death and life. I doubt the zeal
of the response of all these men to the binding ties of family life. And
in this way, it may be, that many fathers will be cut off from the family
and turned away from desiring the sacrifice and duties that children
entail, which cannot fail to act as a further force in modifying marriage.
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