Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
Then, at the most crucial hour in the history of women’s struggle for
power and political recognition, all this dream was arrested. In the
stress of war, the promise of an accumulating betterment was swept down,
even as a too-bright dawn that passes into storm; the ugly aspects of
life sprang upon us with intensifying urgency. Yes, the sudden events of
war seemed, for women, to have blotted out the present and the past, and
to have made all action uncertain.
So it is always when life is stirred at its depths. The change was almost
staggering. Women have had to learn many new and strange lessons; they
are more changed than perhaps they themselves know.
There had come a time when, without any preparation, we women were
brought back to the primitive conception of the relative position of the
two sexes. Military organisation and battle afford the grand opportunity
for the superior force capacity of the male. Again man was the fighter,
the protector of woman and the home. And at once his power became a
reality. The striking and praise-demanding work was done by men. And at
the first violent change there seemed to be nothing for women beyond the
patience of waiting and the service of sacrifice. Later, women have been
called to step in to take the places of men, and there has been work
for them to do of all kinds and in ever-increasing amount. But of this
work, and the new conditions that have thereby arisen, I propose to speak
in the next chapter. Here I am considering only the events that rushed
upon women at the oncoming of war. And inevitably they were pushed aside
into obscurity; they had to be content with unnoticed work that not
infrequently was futile.
It is hard to step so suddenly out of the limelight. And women were
acutely aware of this change in their prospects, and many of them
expressed the situation with engaging frankness. Let me give a small
illustration. I had occasion in the late summer of 1914, a few weeks
after the war had started, to visit a friend. Some months had passed
since I had previously seen her. At that time she was actively engaged
in the suffrage campaign. Now, I found her knitting woollen comforters
for the soldiers, and she was knitting them very badly. I expressed my
surprise. Her answer to me was, “It is all that there is to do.” She then
added this significant statement, “We women have had to learn our place.”
There was, of course, exaggeration in her remark. But it does, I believe,
picture what happened in the thoughts of many women with the sudden
ceasing of their active struggle for political recognition. It was a
state of resigned surprise.
And may it not be that women had need of some lesson?
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