Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes — John Shaqi
Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
In the curious phases witnessed before the war, in that struggle which
was but a more violent expression of the eternal effort at adjustment
between the sexes, there were many strange signs to give pause and fear
to all who think. Women did not, as I believe, realise the possible
results of their sex rebellion. They did not sufficiently distinguish
between those limitations and hardships which could comparatively easily
be removed and those limitations and hardships which are due to the
nature of their sex. Old traditions, without any discrimination, were
cast aside in a violent seeking, and women broke out in unexpected ways,
to fight nervously, carelessly, yet hungrily, as if they were trying to
force the pace of progress.
Women are possessed of great elasticity and cleverness; they are, and
possibly will always remain, more imitative than creative. And from this
follows a very real danger, plainly arising from the quick feminine
receptiveness which is at once the strength of women as well as the cause
of their pitiable weakness. In every direction the new independence and
work capacity of woman was proved in following and imitating men. Thus
it was easy for women to externalise their life in every way, and to
gain success in many different kinds of work. But the question has never
been—could women do this, or do that, kind of work? rather it is—what
work is it most worth while for them to do?
Wounded by the narrowness of their lives, women spent immense energy
out of which much that is good has been gained. Much that was false has
crumbled into ruins, but also much that was fine. What was wanting most
was this: the complete absence in the entire programme of reform of any
kind of feminine idealism.
Did women forget? I think that they did. The realm of woman was still
splendid, still vast. Why, then, this rage against all restrictions? Why
this continuous effort to obliterate the wise differences of sex?
In their violent seeking for life, women were ready to spend all to gain
something which may well prove to be absolutely unnecessary to them. And
to many it must have seemed that they wasted the whole of themselves only
to lose something within themselves. There was much heroic fighting.
Women robbed life for the sake of what they believed was freedom;
yet may it not prove that they have been in love with that which is
unattainable for women?
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