Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
I must wait to impress upon you the wonder of this fact. These
love-antics of the stickleback, which are unique among fishes, would
seem not to be exercised for the gratification of male desire, but for
the purpose of inducing the female to lay her eggs,—to do her part in
giving him offspring. Vainly do I ask myself the reason of this quite
unusual sexual altruism. This is very extraordinary. The father woos
the reluctant mother with passionate dances and his glad excitement
is apparently intense. At this season the stickleback is transformed
and glows with brilliant colours, his scales make silver look dim, his
throat glows with flaming vermilion, he literally puts on a wedding
garment of love.[21] And did I not fear being tedious by again waiting
to point a moral, I should ask attention to this further proof given by
the stickleback’s love joys to the truth which stands out in these life
histories of pre-human parents. I mean this: the parent—the mother or the
father—lives in the offspring. You will see how deep is the truth here.
The parent is, after all, only the transitory custodian of the undying
gift of life.
The conduct of the mother stickleback is in sharp contrast with the
devotion of the stickleback father. At once, having rid herself of her
eggs, her desire would seem to be to escape any further responsibilities.
She forces her way out of the nest by wriggling through the wall opposite
the entrance. True, by doing this she renders a service to the nursery,
as she thereby furnishes a channel through which a continuous supply
of fresh, cool water can be driven, thus keeping the eggs bathed. This
is the only work the stickleback mother does for the family. The male,
after the first laying, may persuade her to add still further to the
deposit of eggs. Sometimes, wearied with her one effort, she refuses.
Thus forced, the stickleback seeks a second wife, driven into polygamous
conduct through his desire for offspring. I know of no other case that
is parallel with this. And the stickleback’s action has often been
misrepresented. He is instanced as a polygamist; such is the fate that
ever awaits self-sacrifice!
When the nest is full the father stickleback mounts guard over the
entrance of the nursery for nearly a month, and he watches by day and by
night, defending his precious charge against all comers.
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