Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
And here another curious fact must be noted: the most dangerous
assailants to the safety of the nursery are his own wives; these
unnatural mothers would, if they were permitted, devour every single
egg. Is it this conduct of the female sticklebacks that explains the
devotion of the male? Again I do not know. Certain it is, however, that
the safety and care of the young is the stickleback father’s constant
occupation—the duty to which he sacrifices his life. From time to time he
changes the position of the eggs; he is a master in sanitation and keeps
them constantly bathed with fresh water. This he does by driving a stream
through the nest by means of a fanning motion of his breast, fins and
tail. Through all the hatching period he works with unceasing care.
When at length the fry are born, the father’s vigilance is even further
taxed. The children, vigorous and venturesome, have to be watched by day
and by night and protected. Around and across and in every direction
the father, as guardsman, continually swims. He drives off all comers
with splendid courage. On one occasion a stickleback father was watched
while his nest was attacked by two tench and a golden carp; he seized
their fins and struck with all his might at their heads and eyes. Truly
the stickleback’s care of his children is extraordinary. His vigilant
eye is everywhere. If any members of the young brood stray too far from
the nest for safety, he immediately swims after them, seizes them in his
mouth, and brings them back to the safe playwater in the vicinity of the
nursery. This continuous watchfulness lasts for about six days after the
hatching.[22]
Well, what do you think now of the common view of the parental instinct
being stronger always in the mother than in the father? Have we not been
taking too much for granted and accepting theory for truth? In the light
of our knowledge gained from these examples of the father’s extreme
devotion, it seems impossible to refrain from thinking that the most
intelligent and fit parent is the one who cares for the young. No doubt
it is difficult, or even impossible, to decide the circumstances that
have contributed to this strange result of the father taking the mother’s
place in the family. We do not know whether these acts of his sacrifice
to the children’s welfare imply the presence of the mind element—that
is, whether they can be regarded as conscious as distinguished from
unconscious adaptation, but this is altogether a separate matter and has
nothing to do with the question we are considering.
Fish display, according to Romanes,[23] emotions of fear, pugnacity,
social, sexual and parental feelings, anger, jealousy, play and
curiosity. Such emotions, he states, correspond with those that are
distinctive of the psychology of a child of about four months.
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