Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes — John Shaqi
Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
The demand of woman to “live her own life” brought, as it seems to some
of us, a slavery not less strong or less evil than that from which
an escape was sought. Women, however unconsciously, were suppressing
themselves in new ways, and still doing things alien to themselves.
This restless seeking was but a further foolish forgetting of the truth
that the only freedom worth having is the freedom to be one’s self. All
that women had promised themselves in a new order of existence must
depend on their acceptance of the responsibilities and limitations of
their womanhood. And by this I mean a full and glad acceptance of those
physical facts of their organic constitution which make them unlike men,
and should limit their capacity for many kinds of work. It can never be
anything but foolishness to attempt to break down the real differences
between the two sexes.
This may be a hard saying to some women: I believe that it is true.
It is necessary to emphasise this fact again, and yet again, because it
is the almost complete disregard by women of their own sexual nature and
its special needs that is the grave evil that is robbing us of life;
this was also the inherent weakness in the Women’s Movement, which,
so far from fulfilling the promise of its earlier period, had ceased,
even before war brought us back to realities, to exert any widely
representative or serious influence.
The predilection for wild pranks, which in this country marked the later
efforts of women to gain political recognition, may, I think, be traced
back to causes bent on crushing and levelling the sex characteristics.
Women had not sufficiently valued themselves, and thus they ceased to
care to be essentially feminine. Instead there was an insatiable desire
to enjoy experience, arising from lack of disciplined culture and from
excess of energy and idleness. It is manifest that militancy gave to
women excitement and occupation.
And this avidity to know and feel and shine, to establish new contacts
with life and affairs, was coupled also with that deeper seeking of
the spirit which has robbed peace from the modern woman. Possibly such
defects are essential to such a movement, a mere destructive phase in the
process of renewing—a clearing of the ground. But the way to gain freedom
is long and toilsome; it is a way that permits of no such energetic
short cuts as the militant Suffragists would have achieved. Mixed up
with all that was fine in their movement was an infinity of glitter and
tinsel, vanity and restlessness. There was present always an intense and
theatrical egotism, a yearning to make an impression and force applause
at any cost.
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