Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
The contrast between the family and clan seems to me of great importance.
Individual relationships became of less importance; the clan did not
consist of groups of families but of individuals. I have stated that the
sexual relationships between the young people began with the reception
by the daughters of temporary lovers in the clan-home. A connection thus
formed would tend under favourable circumstances to be continued and
would be perpetuated as a marriage. Thus it came to be the custom for
the husband to live temporarily or permanently in the wife’s home and
among her kindred. Here he was compelled to work for the general good;
he was without property or any recognised rights in the clan; he was not
permitted a separate home, and was left with no—or very little—control
over his wife and none over the children of the marriage. He occupied,
indeed, the position of a more or less permanent guest in the maternal
hut or tent.
Under such an organisation the family—the first group of the father,
wives and children—is swallowed up in the larger clan. The male has no
position of mastery over the female. As time goes on, the clan becomes
more and more a free association for mutual protection, ruled over by the
ablest and most capable members. Not only does the father not stand out
as a principal person from the background of the familial clan; he has
not even any recognised domestic rights in connection with his own wife
and children. This restriction of the husband and father was clearly
dependent on the form of marriage.
The later modifications of the communal clan and the social customs that
grew up, in most cases—and always, I believe, in the complete maternal
form—were favourable to the authority of the mothers. Kinship was
reckoned through the mother, the totem name was taken from her, since in
this way alone could the undivided family be maintained. The continuity
of the clan thus depending on the women they were placed in a position of
importance; the mother was at least the nominal head of the household,
shaping the destiny of the clan through the aid of her kindred.
All the members of such a compound family were responsible for the
offences of any individual member; and in the same way the clan exacted
blood vengeance or compensation collectively for any offence committed
against its members. But the men belonged to their own clans, that is,
to the clans of their mothers; they did not belong to and had no rights
in the clan of which their wife and children were members. As husbands
and fathers they were without power. This is very important. The woman’s
closest male relation was not her husband, but her brother, who acted as
father to her children.
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