Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
Other forms of marriage are found; indeed, every possible experiment in
family and sexual association has been tried and is still practised among
barbarous races, often with very little reference to those moral ideas to
which we are accustomed. It is, however, very necessary to remember that
monogamy is frequent and indeed usual under the maternal system. When the
husband lives with his wife in a dependent position to her family, he can
do so only in the case of one woman. For this reason polygamy is much
less deeply rooted under the conditions in which the communal life of
the compound family is developed than in the single patriarchal family.
Polygamy is an indication, if not always a proof, of the subordination of
women to the headship of the husband. In the complete maternal family it
is never common and is even prohibited.
It was quite otherwise with polyandry, and though less usual than
monogamy, this form of association is in some cases connected with the
conditions of the maternal clan. I do not believe it can be regarded
as due to a licentious view of the sexual relations, but arose as
an expression of the communism which was characteristic of such an
organisation.
The whole subject of primitive sexual relationships—which, of course,
involves the family, the position of woman and the welfare of the
children—is a very wide and complicated one. If I differ on several
important points from learned authorities, whose knowledge and research
far exceed my own, I do so only after great hesitation, and because I
must. Almost invariably the writers on these questions are men, and
perhaps for this reason the position of women has not received the
attention that it claims. My own studies have convinced me that in the
early beginnings of the human family women exercised a more direct and
stronger influence than is usually believed. This is no fanciful idea of
my own, as I claim to have proved in my earlier book,[66] where it was
possible to bring forward in detail the evidence I have collected on the
subject.
But even in this brief summary enough has been said to give in rough
outline some picture of the family under the conditions of the maternal
communal clan. We have marked the steady strengthening of the tie between
the mother and the child, with the corresponding movement in the opposite
direction in regard to the father’s position in the family. All the
chances for success in parenthood rested with the mother, rather than
with the father. The male was driven out from the holy circle of the
family. This degradation of fatherhood is a fact that must be kept before
our attention.[67]
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