Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
There is, however, another side to the matter. In the face of what
we have established, it must, I think, be accepted that women held
considerable power in this period of mother-descent and under the
maternal form of marriage. The mother was dominant in the family in
this second stage of its development. This is still denied by some
authorities. There are many facts of the early power of women which the
great world does not know.
How, then, are we to come to a decision? Shall we look back to the
maternal stage as the golden period of the family wherein were realised
conditions of free motherhood, which even to-day have not been
established? It is a question very difficult to answer, and we must not
in any haste rush into mistakes. And unfortunately the limitation of my
space can allow only the briefest consideration of the matter.
We find that the mother-age was a transitional stage in the history
of the growth of society, and we can trace the stages of its gradual
decline. There is nothing to show that the customs of maternal communism,
dependent on descent traced in the female line and the maternal form
of marriage, have ever been permanently maintained in any progressive
society. The enlarged family of the maternal clan is thus proved to have
been a less stable social system than the patriarchal single family which
again succeeded it, or it would not have perished in the struggle with
it. I think this must be accepted.
Within the large and undivided group-family of the clan, the restricted
family became gradually re-established by a reassertion of domestic
interests. In proportion as the family gained in importance (which would
arise as the struggle for existence lessened and the need of association
was less imperative) the interests of the individual members would become
separated from the group to which they belonged. As society advanced and
personal property began to be acquired, each man would aim at gaining a
more exclusive right over his wife and children; he would not willingly
submit to the bondage of the maternal form of marriage.
We find the husband and father moving towards the position of a fully
acknowledged legal parent by a system of buying off his wife and her
children from their clan-group. Then the payment of a bride-price was
claimed from the bridegroom by the bride’s relations, and an act of
purchase was accounted essential before marriage; it was, however,
regarded as a condition, not so much of the marriage itself, but of
the transference of the wife to the home of the husband and of the
children to his kindred. The change was, of course, effected slowly;
often we find the two forms of marriage—the maternal form and the
purchase-marriage—occurring side by side. What, however, is certain is
that the purchase-marriage in the struggle was the one which prevailed.
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