Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
There was in the Suffrage movement a wise policy of action. And this
using of women’s stored-up energy, however wastefully it may have
been expended, inflamed in them a gladness that made easy all their
payments of imprisonment, of forcible feeding, and even of death. In
militancy women gained an object and a satisfaction: they were the
centre of something that depended on them. Their movement, with all its
absurdities, was a live thing in their hands. Thus the members gave
to the cause their labour and their enthusiasm, and, because they had
given it so much, they came to love it. Their energetic organisation
came to stand above them like a big, greedy child, grabbing at anything
and everything. It robbed from them the flying hours of life, little by
little devouring them. But in so doing new fuel was thrown on the dead
flames of women’s passions. For they gained that for which they were
seeking. A new, strange opportunity for sacrifice was here, supplying the
need which, however unrecognised and denied, is the fundamental desire of
woman. This was the joy that was gained by the Suffrage martyrs—something
vivifying, flooding dead lives with colour, action and emotion. Yes,
these women yielded themselves to their movement with joy, just as a
woman yields herself to her lover that she may give life to his child.
And then all this audacious, hardly understood movement was brought
to an end by war. Militarism put a swift close to militancy. As far
as women were concerned, their hope of forcing political recognition
fell to confusion. The war came like a great shadow across the whole
bright complex problem of the future. So much was this so that writing
of militancy now feels almost like referring to a forgotten event that
happened in the very far past. It would be easy to pass over the whole
Suffrage movement in silence. And, indeed, I should have done this if I
did not believe that its inner effect on women had been more lasting than
the outward gain.
I wish to emphasise the change that came to women in the period
immediately before the war. The Suffrage movement was a collective
movement in which the individual had to win honour in self-forgetfulness
and in group work. And this co-operation for the gaining of the Vote
carried with it also a co-operation of service and a great development
of mutual helpfulness. And from this it has followed very directly that
many women have turned their backs for ever on petty interests and
disloyalties to one another, and have recovered a quite fresh sense of
honourable emulations and loyalty.
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