Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
In part because the foreigners who land on our shores, and upon whom,
unfortunately, we are obliged to depend for all labor which we cannot
do ourselves, come to us with strange ideas of what is meant by all
being “free and equal”; or, if you take one right from the emigrant
vessel, it requires but a few weeks for those of their nation, who,
having been here longer, think themselves better informed, to impart
their knowledge, and teach erroneous ideas of these rights. Under such
bad influence it takes but a short time for the modest stranger, whom
you received into your house and endeavored to teach a correct mode
of labor, to be transformed both in dress and manners into a bold,
self-willed girl. Her countrywomen gather about her and warn her not to
be “put upon,”--a favorite phrase among those whose chief aim is to get
the highest price for the least labor. “Stand up for your rights”; and
they proceed to expound a code of “rights” which, if they were allowed
to carry into practice, would soon leave us entirely at their mercy.
They are told to insist upon just so many times at church, and certain
days “out.” Then the funerals--and there never was such mortality as
is always happening among our servants’ relations, particularly the
cousins--and the weddings, and the baptism of infants for which our
girls are to stand “sponsors,” all come upon us in quick succession.
Then, every step of the work each girl is expected to do must be
carefully defined, and you are not to be allowed to call upon them, on
any condition, for one thing over and above the specified labor.
How has this class of persons succeeded in taking and maintaining such
a stand? In part it has grown up, gradually, from seeing in their
employers the independence that is a distinctive peculiarity in our
national character. But that which, when rightly regulated, is a noble
thing, when used by uninformed and undisciplined minds, for selfish
ends, is not likely to bring forth the most desirable results.
But is not the trouble and disturbance through our servants, which
particularly characterizes the present day, in part the fault of the
_ignorance_ of the mistress? Our ladies give much less attention to
domestic affairs than in former times; and our young ladies are growing
up, for the most part, poor housekeepers. The material for the very
best of servants may be easily ruined by a poor mistress. Much time
and money is expended on the education of our girls; but that part of
education which would help to keep them strong and healthful is almost
entirely ignored,--we mean regular work, at stated times, about the
house; not only to establish good health, but to secure a thorough
knowledge of domestic operations.
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