My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's HistoryStowe, Harriet Beecher
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My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's History
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
American fiction -- 19th century; Courtship -- Fiction; Marriage -- Fiction; Romance fiction
These heads of dream-women are, after all, not to be laughed at; they
show the yearning for womanly influences and womanly society which
follows the young man in his enforced monastic seclusion from all family
life and family atmosphere. These little fanciful French lithographs,
generally, are chosen for quite other than artistic reasons. If we
search into it we shall find that one is selected because it is like
sister "Nell," and another puts one in mind of "Bessie," and then again,
there is another "like a girl I used to know." Now and then one of them
has such a piquant, provoking air of individuality, that one is sure it
must have been sketched from nature. Some teasing, coaxing,
"don't-care-what-you-think" sort of a sprite, must have wreathed poppies
and blue corn-flowers just so in her hair, and looked gay defiance at
the artist who drew it. There was just such a saucy, spirited gipsy over
my mantel piece, who seemed to defy me to find her if I searched the
world over--with whom I held sometimes airy colloquies--not in the least
was she like my dream-wife, but I liked her for all that, and thought I
would "give something" to know what she would have to say to me, just
for the curiosity of the thing.
The college was in a little village, and there was no particular amity
between the townspeople and the students. I believe it is the
understanding in such cases, that college students are to be regarded
and treated as a tribe of Bedouin Arabs, whose hand is against every
man, and they in their turn are not backward to make good the character.
Public opinion shuts them up together--they are a state within a
state--with a public sentiment, laws, manners, and modes of thinking of
their own. It is a state, too, without women. When we think of this, and
remember that all this experience is gone through in the most gaseous
and yeasty period of human existence, we no longer wonder that there are
college rows and scrapes, that all sort of grotesque capers become
hereditary and traditional; that an apple-cart occasionally appears on
top of one of the steeples, that cannon balls are rolled surreptitiously
down the college stairs, and that tutors' doors are mysteriously found
locked at recitation hours. One simply wonders that the roof is not
blown off, and the windows out, by the combined excitability of so many
fermenting natures.
There is a tendency now in society to open the college course equally to
women--to continue through college life that interaction of the
comparative influence of the sexes which is begun in the family.
To a certain extent this experiment has been always favorably tried in
the New England rural Academies, where young men are fitted for college
in the same classes and studies with women.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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