My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's HistoryStowe, Harriet Beecher
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My Wife and I; Or, Harry Henderson's History
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
American fiction -- 19th century; Courtship -- Fiction; Marriage -- Fiction; Romance fiction
In these time-honored institutions, young women have kept step with
young men in the daily pursuit of science, not only without disorder or
unseemly scandal, but with manifestly more quietness and refinement of
manner than obtains in institutions where female association ceases
altogether. The presence of a couple of dozen of well-bred ladies in the
lecture and recitation rooms of a college would probably be a preventive
of many of the unseemly and clumsy jokes wherewith it has been customary
to diversify the paths of science, to the affliction of the souls of
professors.
But for us boys, there was no gospel of womanhood except what was to be
got from the letters of mothers and sisters, and such imperfect and
flitting acquaintance as we could pick up in the streets with the girls
of the village. Now though there might be profit, could young men and
women see each other daily under the responsibility of serious business,
keeping step with one another in higher studies, yet it by no means
follows that this kind of flitting glimpse-like acquaintance, formed
merely in the exchange of a few outside superficialities, can have any
particularly good effect. No element of true worthy friendship, of sober
appreciation, or manly or womanly good sense, generally enters into
these girl-and-boy flirtations, which are the only substitute for family
association during the barren years of student life. The students were
not often invited into families, and those who gained a character as
ladies' men were not favorably looked upon by our elders. Now and then
by rare and exceptional good luck a college student is made at home in
some good family, where there is a nice kind mother and the wholesome
atmosphere of human life; or, he forms the acquaintance of some woman,
older and wiser than himself, who can talk with him on all the multitude
of topics his college studies suggest. But such cases are only
exceptions. In general there is no choice between flirtation and
monastic isolation.
For my part, I posed myself on the exemplary platform, and remembering
my uncle Jacob's advice, contemplated life with the grim rigidity of a
philosopher. I was going to have no trifling, and surveyed the girls at
church, on Sunday, with a distant and severe air--as gay creatures of
an hour, who could hold no place in my serious meditations. Plato or
Aristotle, in person, could not have contemplated life and society from
a more serene height of composure. I was favorably known by my teachers,
and held rank at the head of my class, and was stigmatized as a "dig,"
by frisky young gentlemen who enjoyed rolling cannon balls down
stairs--taking the tongue out of the chapel bell--greasing the seats,
and other thread-bare college jokes, which they had not genius enough to
vary, so as to give them a spice of originality.
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