Watson, a nursing theorist and philosopher, offers insight into caring. In her theory of Human Care, she examines caring as an intersubjective human process expressing respect for the mystery of being-in-the-world, reflected in the three spheres of mind-body-soul. Human care transactions based on reciprocity allow for a unique and authentic quality of presence in the world of the other. In a related vein, Parse (1981) defines the ontology of caring as "risking being with someone toward a moment of joy." Through being with another, connectedness occurs and moments of joy are experienced by both. If the ontological basis for being is that all persons are caring and that by our humanness caring is, then I accept that I am a caring person. This belief that all persons are caring, however, entails a commitment to know self and other as caring person. According to Trigg (1973), commitment "presupposes certain beliefs and also involves a personal dedication to the actions implied by them" (p. 44). Mayeroff (1971) speaks of this dedication as devotion and states "devotion is essential to caring .. . when devotion breaks down, caring breaks down" (p. 8). Mayeroff also states that "obligations that derive from devotion are a constituent element in caring" (p. 9). Moral obligations arise from our commitments; therefore, when I make a commitment to caring as a way of being, I have become morally obligated. The quality of the moral commitment is a measure of being "in place" in the world. Gadow (1980) asserts that caring represents the moral ideal of nursing wherein the human dignity of the patient and nurse is recognized and enhanced. As individuals we are continually in the process of developing expressions of ourselves as caring persons. The flow of life experiences provides ongoing opportunities for knowing self as caring person. As we learn to live fully each of these experiences, it becomes easier to allow self and others the space and time to develop innate caring capabilities and authentic being. The awareness of self as caring person calls to consciousness the belief that caring, is lived by each person moment to moment and directs the "oughts" of actions. When decisions are made from this perspective, the emerging question consistently is, "How ought I act as caring person?"