How one is with others is influenced by the degree of authentic
awareness of self as caring person. Caring for self as person requires
experiencing self as other and yet being one with self, valuing self
as special and unique, and having the courage, humility, and trust to
honestly know self. It takes courage to let go of the present so that it
may be transcended and new meaning be discovered. Letting go, of course,
implies a freeing of oneself from present constraints so that we may see
and be in new ways. One who cares is genuinely humble in being ready and
willing to know more about self and others. Such humility involves the
realization that learning is continuous and the recognition that each
experience is unique. As my commitment to persons as caring moves into
the future, I must choose again and again to ratify it or not. This
commitment remains binding and choices are made based on devotion to
this commitment.
Personhood is the process of living grounded in caring. Personhood
implies living out who we are, demonstrating congruence between beliefs
and behaviors, and living the meaning of one's life. As a process,
personhood acknowledges the person as having continuous potential for
further tapping the current of caring. Therefore, as person we are
constantly living caring and unfolding possibilities for self as caring
person in each moment. Personhood is being authentic, being who I am
as caring person in the moment. This process is enhanced through
participation in nurturing relationships with others.
The nature of relationships is transformed through caring. All relations
between and among persons carry with them mutual expectations. Caring
is living in the context of relational responsibilities. A relationship
experienced through caring holds at its heart the importance of
person-as-person. Being in the world also mandates participating in
human relationships that require re-sponsibility--responsibility to self
and other. To the extent that these relationships are shaped through
caring, they are consistent with the obligations entailed in relational
responsibility, and the "person-al" (person-to-person) relationships.
When being with self and others is approached from a desire to know
person as living caring, the human potential for actualizing caring
directs the moment.
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