It is to no purpose that your man-servant and your maid-servant, and
even the stranger within your gates, have seen you in the apparent
enjoyment of domestic happiness: it is the crowd of a ball-room must
testify in your favour--it is the pit of a theatre--it is the company of
a steam-boat, or the party on a rail-road, you must adduce in evidence.
They are the best--they are the only judges of what you, in the
ignorance of your heart, have believed a secret for your own bosom.
Your conduct within-doors is of little moment, so that your bearing
without satisfy the world. What a delightful picture of universal
happiness will England then present to the foreigner who visits our
salons! With what ecstasy will he contemplate the angelic felicity of
conjugal life! Instead of the indignant coldness of a husband, offended
by some casual levity of his wife, he will now redouble his attentions,
and take an opportunity of calling the company to witness that they live
together like turtle-doves. He knows not how soon, if he mix much in
fashionable life, their testimony may avail him; and the loving smile he
throws his spouse across the supper-table is worth three thousand pounds
before any jury in Middlesex.
Romance writers will now lose one stronghold of sentiment. Love in a
cottage will possess as little respect as it ever did attraction for the
world. The pier at Brighton, a Gravesend steamer, Hyde Park on a Sunday,
will be the appropriate spheres for the interchange of conjugal vows.
No absurd notions of solitude will then hold sway. Alas! how little
prophetic spirit is there in poetry! But a few years ago, and one of our
sirens of song said,
“When should lovers breathe their vows?
When should ladies hear them?
When the dew is on the boughs--
When none else is near them.”
Not a word of it! The appropriate place is amid the glitter of jewels,
the glare of lamps, the crush of fashion, and the din of conversation.
The private boxes of the opera are even, too secluded, and your
happiness is no more genuine, until recognised by society, than is an
exchequer bill with the mere signature of Lord Monteagle.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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