On the manner of negotiating with princes: On the uses of diplomacy; the choice of ministers and envoys; and the personal qualities necessary for success in missions abroad — John Shaqi
On the manner of negotiating with princes: On the uses of diplomacy; the choice of ministers and envoys; and the personal qualities necessary for success in missions abroadCallières, Monsieur de (François)
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On the manner of negotiating with princes: On the uses of diplomacy; the choice of ministers and envoys; and the personal qualities necessary for success in missions abroad
Callières, Monsieur de (François)
Ambassadors; Diplomacy; Negotiation; Princes
[Sidenote: _Personal Qualities of the Good Negotiator._]
God having endowed men with diverse talents, the best advice that one
can give is to take counsel with themselves before choosing their
profession. Thus he who would enter the profession of diplomacy must
examine himself to see whether he was born with the qualities necessary
for success. These qualities are an observant mind, a spirit of
application which refuses to be distracted by pleasures or frivolous
amusements, a sound judgment which takes the measure of things as
they are, and which goes straight to its goal by the shortest and
most natural paths without wandering into useless refinements and
subtleties which as a rule only succeed in repelling those with whom
one is dealing. The negotiator must further possess that penetration
which enables him to discover the thoughts of men and to know by the
least movement of their countenances what passions are stirring within,
for such movements are often betrayed even by the most practised
negotiator. He must also have a mind so fertile in expedients as easily
to smooth away the difficulties which he meets in the course of his
duty; he must have presence of mind to find a quick and pregnant reply
even to unforeseen surprises, and by such judicious replies he must be
able to recover himself when his foot has slipped. An equable humour, a
tranquil and patient nature, always ready to listen with attention to
those whom he meets; an address always open, genial, civil, agreeable,
with easy and ingratiating manners which assist largely in making a
favourable impression upon those around him--these things are the
indispensable adjuncts to the negotiator’s profession. Their opposite,
the grave and cold air, a melancholy or rough exterior, may create
a first impression which is not easily removed. Above all the good
negotiator must have sufficient control over himself to resist the
longing to speak before he has really thought what he shall say. He
should not endeavour to gain the reputation of being able to reply
immediately and without premeditation to every proposition which is
made, and he should take a special care not to fall into the error of
one famous foreign ambassador of our time who so loved an argument that
each time he warmed up in controversy he revealed important secrets in
order to support his opinion.
[Sidenote: _The Air of Mystery._]
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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