On the manner of negotiating with princes: On the uses of diplomacy; the choice of ministers and envoys; and the personal qualities necessary for success in missions abroadCallières, Monsieur de (François)
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On the manner of negotiating with princes: On the uses of diplomacy; the choice of ministers and envoys; and the personal qualities necessary for success in missions abroad
Callières, Monsieur de (François)
Ambassadors; Diplomacy; Negotiation; Princes
But indeed there is another fault of which the negotiator must beware:
he must not fall into the error of supposing that an air of mystery, in
which secrets are made out of nothing and in which the merest bagatelle
is exalted into a great matter of state, is anything but a mark of
smallness of mind and betokens an incapacity to take the true measure
either of men or of things. Indeed, the more the negotiator clothes
himself in mystery, the less he will have means of discovering what
is happening and of acquiring the confidence of those with whom he
deals. A continual reserve is like the lock on a door which is never
turned and becomes so rusty that in the end no man can open it. The
able negotiator will of course not permit his secret to be drawn from
him except at his own time, and he should be able to disguise from
his competitor the fact that he has any secret to reveal; but in all
other matters he must remember that open dealing is the foundation of
confidence and that everything which he is not compelled by duty to
withhold ought to be freely shared with those around him. He will thus
gradually establish terms of confidence with his neighbours, from which
he may draw immense profit, for it may not infrequently happen that in
exchange for some trivial information given by himself, the negotiator
may, as it were by accident, receive important news from his colleague
in another embassy. The practised negotiator will know how to employ
the circumstances of his life and of the lives of those around him
in such a manner as to lead them naturally and without restraint to
talk of the conditions and affairs of their own country, and the more
extended his view and the wider his knowledge the more surely will he
thus gather important news every day of his life.
[Sidenote: _Dignity._]
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