Some of them find it thoroughly disagreeable. They believe that old
laws were born of old desires and find their sanctions in the emotions
of men. They seek for new and rational ways back to the sort of
stability provided by the traditional relationships of men and women.
Others find in contemporary manners merely the disorder incident to
reconstruction; they find there tentative beginnings rather than
ruinous endings. They see chaos as an interesting laboratory, filled
with strange ferments and the pungent odors of new compounds. None of
these writers offers dogmatic conclusions--and in this they differ
delightfully from our most popular novelists and preachers. They
present facts, they analyze and interpret; they suggest directions,
they even prophesy. But they never announce or warn or reprove. When
these chapters first appeared as articles in _The Nation_ it became
evident that this exercise of thought was itself commonly held to be
a simple blasphemy. Letters from readers came in scores charging the
articles with the sin of intelligence where only faith and conformity
were tolerable. Dogma is so deep in the bone of even the more
enlightened and adult members of our modern world that the most modest
doubt regarding the success of monogamy or the virtue of chastity
becomes in some way an insult to Moses or Saint Paul.
It is interesting to see how many of the authors of this group of
articles find a connection between the changing standards of sex
behavior and the increasing freedom of women. Are women forcing this
change? Or does freedom itself make change inevitable? Possibly only
the woman in the isolation of the home is able to sustain the double
load of her own virtue and her husband’s ideals. Out in the world,
in contact and competition with men, she is forced to discriminate;
questions are thrust upon her. The old rules fail to work; bewildering
inconsistencies confront her. Things that were sure become unsure. And
slowly, clumsily, she is trying to construct a way out to a new sort of
certainty in life; she is seeking something to take the place of the
burden of solemn ideals and reverential attitudes that rolled off her
shoulders when she emerged. That some such process may be going on is
hinted at in more than one of these articles. Certainly, of the factors
involved in modern sex relations, women and economic conditions are the
two that have suffered the most revolutionary change; and men’s morals
must largely shape themselves to the patterns laid down by these two
masters of life.
Much has been said about sex--and everything remains to be said.
Largely, new conclusions will be reached through new processes of
living. People will act--and then a new code will grow up. But along
the way guidance and interpretation are deeply needed, if only to take
the place of the pious imprecations of those who fear life and hate the
dangers and uncertainties of thought and emotion.
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