This is an error. The family is the prototype of the state, a tiny
primitive state in itself, often quite inimical to the interests of
the larger state which has developed through the wider interaction of
individuals. The state does not elect families, tax families, punish
families, nor thrive where physical inheritance is made the basis of
authority. Where the family persists too powerfully, as in China, there
is a commensurate lack in the vitality and efficiency of the state. By
restricting women to the family relationship, with its compulsory woman
service and domestic morality, we have checked and perverted social
growth by keeping out of it the most effective factor in that growth,
the mother.
The world having been for so long dominated by the individualistic
and combative male, with that vast increment of masculine thought and
emotion embodied in our literature, our religion, our art, modifying
all our ideals, it is not to be wondered at that the newly freed women
are as yet unable to see their opportunity, their power, and their
long-prevented sex duty--race improvement.
The collapse of the arbitrary and unjust domestic morality of the past
will presently be followed by recognition of the social morality of
the future. Rightly discarding artificial standards of virtue based
on the pleasure of men, we shall establish new ones based on natural
law. Repudiating their duty to an owner and master, women have yet
to accept and fulfill their duty to society, to the human race. This
is not generally clear to them. In their legitimate rebellion against
domestic service and compulsory sex-service they almost inevitably
confuse these things with marriage, with which indeed they have been
long synonymous. Some of our most valuable women, as well as many of
negligible importance, speak of marriage as if it were an invention
of Queen Victoria. Surely no excessive education is needed to learn
that monogamy, among many of the higher carnivora and birds, is as
natural a form of sex union as the polygamy of the grass eaters or
the promiscuity among insects, reptiles, and fish. Monogamy appears
when it is to the advantage of the young to have the continued care
of both parents. This means that the parents share in the activities
of supporting the family; it does not mean that the female becomes
the servant of the male. Because of the united activities and mutual
services of the pair love is developed, and stays. Such profound
affection is found in some of these natural “marriages” that if one
of a pair is killed the other will not mate again. Mated leopards
or ostriches do not remain together because they are “Victorian” or
“puritanical,” but because they like to. They could form as many and as
variegated “free unions” as Greenwich Villagers if they choose; there
is nothing to stop them.
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