But natural monogamy is as free from sex service as from domestic
service. The pairing species adhere to their mating season as do the
polygamous ones, or even the promiscuous. Man is the only animal using
this function out of season and apart from its essential purpose.
These natural monogamists are not “ascetics.” They are not dominated
by religious doctrine or civil law. They fulfill their natural desires
with the utmost freedom, but these desires do not move them out of
season.
The human species, with all its immense advantages, has made many
conspicuous missteps. Its eating habits are such as to have induced a
wide assortment of wholly unnecessary diseases; its drinking habits
are glaringly injurious; and its excessive indulgence in sex-waste has
imperiled the life of the race.
Domestic morality vaguely recognized some duty to society and sought
through religion to limit masculine desires or at least to restrict
their indulgence to marriage. But the desires of a vigorous polygamist
are not easily restricted to one wife; and our polygamous period was
far longer than that of the recently established monogamy. It is a most
reassuring fact in social evolution that monogamy, naturally belonging
to our species, has persisted among the common people and in popular
ideals: even in “The Arabian Nights” the love story is always about
one man and one woman, never of the mad passion for a harem! So with
the accelerated progress of recent centuries monogamous union becomes
accepted, and is carefully buttressed by the law, while religion, with
commandments and ceremonies, does its best to establish “the sanctity
of marriage.” But as religion, law, and family authority were all in
the hands of men, they naturally interpreted that sanctity to suit
themselves, ignored the religious restrictions, and so handled the law
as to apply its penalties to but one party in a dual offense.
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