The precautions which a good woman takes to preserve her purity are
indeed legion. There are places where no nice woman will go, situations
with which she must have no immediate acquaintance, people with whom
she must not associate; there are various embodiments of evil, in
short, to which she must not expose herself. That these evils should
exist, that they should be tolerated as meeting certain needs in the
lives of men and be made possible by other women--all this the average
good woman swallows without repulsion, or, more commonly, ignores.
She is aroused to a state of true indignation only when her own moral
exclusiveness, or that of her kind, is threatened. The same woman who
accepts with a good deal of equanimity the fact that men she associates
with also associate with “gay” women would be considerably upset if
these men were to attempt to associate with both kinds of women at
the same time. Why is the average woman so upset if a man of her
acquaintance makes “improper advances”? Is it that she is horrified to
find that he is willing to indulge his irregular sex desires? No. She
is outraged because he thinks she is willing to indulge hers, because
he holds her virtue too lightly. Sex evils, coarsenesses are then to be
part of the good woman’s environment in the intimate sense that they
often enter into the lives of the men she accepts as friends, even of
the men with whom she is to have the most personal and supposedly ideal
relationships. Her sole function is to turn her back on these evils.
The point of prime importance to her is that they should not pollute
her; and the first demand which she makes upon men is that they shall
show their respect for this ideal by keeping her apart.
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