Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
More; parents hold their children in trust for society. “My own child”
can only be true in a limited sense; the children are held as a public
trust to be trained as is best for the welfare of the community; and
in this sense, also, the parents are persons in authority, with the
dignity of their office to support, and are even liable to deposition.
The one State whose name has passed into a proverb, standing for a
group of virtues which we have no other word to describe, is a State
which practically deprived parents of the functions which they failed
to fulfil to the furtherance of public virtue. No doubt the State
reserves to itself virtually the power to bring up its own children
in its own way, with the least possible co-operation of parents.
Even to-day, a neighbouring nation has elected to charge itself with
the training of its infants. So soon as they can crawl, or sooner,
before ever they run or speak, they are to be brought to the “Maternal
School,” and carefully nurtured, as with mother’s milk, in the virtues
proper for a citizen. The scheme is as yet but in the experimental
stage, but will doubtless be carried through, because the nation in
question has long ago discovered--and acted consistently upon the
discovery--that what you would have the man become, that you must train
the child to be.
Perhaps such public deposition of parents is the last calamity that
can befall a nation. These poor little ones are to grow up in a world
where the name of God is not to be named; to grow up, too, without the
training in filial duty and brotherly love and neighbourly kindness
which falls to the children of all but the few unnatural parents. They
may be returned to their parents at certain hours or after certain
years; but once alienation has been set up, once the strongest and
sweetest tie has been loosened and the parents have been publicly
delivered from their duty, the desecration of the home is complete;
and we shall have the spectacle of a people growing up orphaned
almost from their birth. This is a new thing in the world’s history,
for even Lycurgus left the children to their parents for the first
half-dozen years of life. Certain newspapers commend the example for
our imitation, but God forbid that we should ever lose faith in the
blessedness of family life. Parents who hold their children as, at
the same time, a public trust and a divine trust, and who recognise
the authority they hold as _deputed_ authority, not to be trifled
with, laid aside, or abused--such parents preserve for the nation the
immunities of home, and safeguard the privileges of their order.
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