Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“Why, let them know the facts, possess them of even so slight an
outline as we have had to-night, and the best women will take measures
for self-preservation. Put them on their guard, that is all. It is not
enough to give them accomplishments and all sorts of higher learning;
these gratify the desire of esteem only in a very temporary way. But
something more than a danger-signal is wanted. The woman, as well
as the man, must have her share of the world’s work, whose reward
is the world’s esteem. She must, even the cherished wife and mother
of a family, be in touch with the world’s needs, and must minister
of the gifts she has; and that, because it is no dream that we are
all brethren, and must therefore suffer from any seclusion from the
_common_ life.”
* * * * *
Mrs. Jumeau’s life was not “spoilt.” It turned out as the doctor
predicted; for days after his revelations she was ashamed to look her
husband in the face; but then, she called up her forces, fought her own
fight and came off victorious.
CHAPTER IX
“_A HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO YOU!_”
The Christmas holidays! Boys and girls at school are counting off the
days till the home-coming. Young men and maidens, who have put away
childish things, do not reckon with date-stones, but consult their
Bradshaws. The little ones at home are storing up surprises. The father
says genially, “We shall soon have our young folk at home again.”
The mother? Nobody, not the youngest of the schoolgirls, is so glad
as she. She thinks of setting out for church on Christmas Day with,
let us hope, the whole of her scattered flock about her. Already she
pictures to herself how each has altered and grown, and yet how every
one is just as of old. She knows how Lucy will return prettier and more
lovable than ever; Willie, more amusing; Harry, kinder; and how the
elders will rejoice in baby May!
And yet, there is a shade of anxiety in the mother’s face as she
plans for the holidays. The brunt of domestic difficulties falls,
necessarily, upon her. It is not quite easy to arrange a household
for a sudden incursion of new inmates whose stay is not measured by
days. Servants must be considered, and may be tiresome. Amusements,
interests, must be thought of, and then---- Does the mother stop short
and avoid putting into shape the “and then,” which belongs to the
holiday weeks after Christmas Day is over?
“Let us have a happy Christmas, any way,” she says; “we must leave the
rest.”
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