Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
That he should take direction and inspiration from all the casual life
about him, should make our poor words and ways the starting-point from
which, and in the direction of which, he develops--this is a thought
which makes the most of us hold our breath. There is no way of escape
for parents; they must needs be as “inspirers” to their children,
because about them hangs, as its atmosphere about a planet, the
thought-environment of the child, from which he derives those enduring
ideas which express themselves as a life-long “appetency” towards
things sordid or things lovely, things earthly or divine.
Let us now hear Coleridge on the subject of those _definite_ ideas
which are not inhaled as air, but conveyed as meat to the mind:--[3]
“From the first, or initiative idea, as from a seed, successive ideas
germinate.”
“Events and images, the lively and spirit-stirring machinery of the
external world, are like light, and air, and moisture to the seed of
the mind, which would else rot and perish.”
“The paths in which we may pursue a methodical course are manifold, and
at the head of each stands its peculiar and guiding idea.”
“Those ideas are as regularly subordinate in dignity as the paths to
which they point are various and eccentric in direction. The world has
suffered much, in modern times, from a subversion of the natural and
necessary order of Science ... from summoning reason and faith to the
bar of that limited physical experience to which, by the true laws of
method, they owe no obedience.”
“Progress follows the path of the idea from which it sets out;
requiring, however, a constant wakefulness of mind to keep it within
the due limits of its course. Hence the orbits of thought, so to speak,
must differ among themselves as the initiative ideas differ.”
Have we not here the corollary to, and the explanation of, that law of
unconscious cerebration which results in our “ways of thinking,” which
shapes our character, rules our destiny? Thoughtful minds consider
that the new light which biology is throwing upon the laws of mind is
bringing to the front once more the Platonic doctrine, that “An idea is
a distinguishable power, self-affirmed, and seen in its unity with the
Eternal Essence.”
The whole subject is profound, but as practical as it is profound. We
absolutely must disabuse our minds of the theory that the functions
of education are, in the main, gymnastic. In the early years of the
child’s life it makes, perhaps, little apparent difference whether his
parents start with the notion that to educate is to fill a receptacle,
inscribe a tablet, mould plastic matter, or nourish a life; but in the
end we shall find that only those _ideas_ which have fed his life are
taken into the being of the child; all the rest is thrown away, or
worse, is like sawdust in the system, an impediment and an injury to
the vital processes.
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