Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
This is, perhaps, how the educational formula should run: Education is
a life; that life is sustained on ideas; ideas are of spiritual origin;
but,
“God has made us so,”
that we get them chiefly as we convey them to one another. The duty of
parents is to sustain a child’s inner life with ideas as they sustain
his body with food. The child is an eclectic; he may choose this or
that; therefore, in the morning sow thy seed, and in the evening
withhold not thy hand, for thou knowest not which shall prosper,
whether this or that, or whether they both shall be alike good.
The child has affinities with evil as well as with good; therefore,
hedge him about from any chance lodgment of evil suggestion.
The initial idea begets subsequent ideas; therefore, take care that
children get right primary ideas on the great relations and duties of
life.
Every study, every line of thought, has its “guiding idea;” therefore
the study of a child makes for living education, as it is quickened by
the guiding idea “which stands at the head.”
In a word, our much boasted “infallible reason”--is it not the
involuntary thought which follows the initial idea upon necessary
logical lines? Given, the starting idea, and the conclusion may be
predicated almost to a certainty. We get into the _way_ of thinking
such and such manner of thoughts, and of coming to such and such
conclusions, ever further and further removed from the starting-point,
but on the same lines. There is structural adaptation in the brain
tissue to the manner of thoughts we think--a plan and a way for them to
run in. Thus we see how the destiny of a life is shaped in the nursery,
by the reverent naming of the Divine Name; by the light scoff at holy
things; by the thought of duty the little child gets who is made to
finish conscientiously his little task; by the hardness of heart that
comes to the child who hears the faults or sorrows of others spoken of
lightly.
FOOTNOTES:
[1] “We beg pardon for the use of this _insolens verbum_,
but it is one of which our language stands in great
need.”--S. T. COLERIDGE.
[2] Isaiah xxviii.
[3] _Method_--S. T. COLERIDGE.
CHAPTER V
_PARENTS AS INSPIRERS_
PART III
It is probable that parents as a class feel more than ever before the
responsibility of their prophetic office. It is as revealers of God to
their children that parents touch their highest limitations; perhaps it
is only as they succeed in this part of their work that they fulfil the
Divine intention in giving them children to bring up--in the nurture
and admonition of the Lord.
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