Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
This thought of the Saviour of the world implies another conception
which we sometimes leave out of sight in dealing with children. Young
faces are not always sunny and lovely; even the brightest children in
the happiest circumstances have their clouded hours. We rightly put the
cloud down to some little disorder, or to the weather, but these are
the secondary causes which reveal a deep-seated discontent. Children
have a sense of sin acute in proportion to their sensitiveness. We are
in danger of trusting too much to a rose-water treatment; we do not
take children seriously enough; brought face to face with a child,
we find he is a very real person, but in our educational theories we
take him as “something between a wax doll and an angel.” He sins; he
is guilty of greediness, falsehood, malice, cruelty, a hundred faults
that would be hateful in a grown-up person; we say he will know better
by-and-by. He will never know better; he is keenly aware of his own
odiousness. How many of us would say about our childhood, if we told
the whole truth, “Oh, I was an odious little thing!” and that, not
because we recollect our faults, but because we recollect our childish
estimate of ourselves. Many a bright and merry child is odious in his
own eyes; and the “peace, peace, where there is no peace,” of fond
parents and friends is little comfort. It is well that we “ask for the
old paths, where is the good way;” it is not well that, in the name of
the old paths, we lead our children into blind alleys, nor that we let
them follow the new into bewildering mazes.
CHAPTER VI
_PARENTS AS INSPIRERS_
PART IV
“One of the little boys gazing upon the terrible desolation
of the scene, so unlike in its savage and inhuman aspects
anything he had ever seen at home, nestled close to his
mother, and asked with bated breath, ‘Mither, is there a
God here?’”--JOHN BURROUGHS.
The last chapter introduced the thought of parents in their highest
function--as revealers of God to their children. To bring the human
race, family by family, child by child, out of the savage and inhuman
desolation where He is not, into the light and warmth and comfort of
the presence of God, is, no doubt, the chief thing we have to do in
the world. And this individual work with each child, being the most
momentous work in the world, is put into the hands of the wisest, most
loving, disciplined, and divinely instructed of human beings. Be ye
perfect _as your Father_ is perfect, is the perfection of parenthood,
perhaps to be attained only in its fulness through parenthood. There
are mistaken parents, ignorant parents, a few indifferent parents,
even, as one in a thousand, callous parents; but the good that is done
upon the earth is done, under God, by parents, whether directly or
indirectly.
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