Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
the introduction of such primal ideas as shall impel the soul to God
is the first duty and the highest privilege of parents. Whatever sin of
unbelief a man is guilty of, are his parents wholly without blame? Let
us consider what is commonly done in the nursery in this respect. No
sooner can the little being lisp than he is taught to kneel up in his
mother’s lap, and say “God bless ...” and then follows a list of the
near and dear, and “God bless ... and make him a good boy, for Jesus’
sake. Amen.” It is very touching and beautiful. I once peeped in at an
open cottage door in a moorland village, and saw a little child in its
nightgown kneeling in its mother’s lap and saying its evening prayer.
The spot has ever since remained to me a sort of shrine. There is no
sight more touching and tender. By-and-by, so soon as he can speak the
words,
“Gentle Jesus, meek and mild,”
is added to the little one’s prayer, and later, “Our Father.” Nothing
could be more suitable and more beautiful than these morning and
evening approaches to God, the little children brought to Him by their
mothers. And most of us can “think back” to the hallowing influence of
these early prayers. But might not more be done? How many times a day
does a mother lift up her heart to God as she goes in and out amongst
her children, and they never know! “To-day I talked to them” (a boy
and girl of four and five) “about Rebekah at the well. They were very
much interested, especially about Eliezer praying in his heart and the
answer coming at once. They said, ‘How did he pray?’ I said, ‘I often
pray in my heart when you know nothing about it. Sometimes you begin
to show a naughty spirit, and I pray for you in my heart, and almost
directly I find the good Spirit comes, and your faces show my prayer
is answered.’ O. stroked my hand and said, ‘Dear mother, I shall think
of that!’ Boy looked thoughtful, but didn’t speak; but when they were
in bed I knelt down to pray for them before leaving them, and when I
got up, Boy said, ‘Mother, God filled my heart with goodness while you
prayed for us; and, mother, I _will_ try to-morrow.’” Is it possible
that the mother could, when alone with her children, occasionally hold
this communing out loud, so that the children might grow up in the
sense of the presence of God? It would probably be difficult for many
mothers to break down the barrier of spiritual reserve in the presence
of even their own children. But could it be done, would it not lead to
glad and natural living in the recognised presence of God?
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