Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
A mother who remembered a little penny scent-bottle as an early joy of
her own, took three such small bottles home to her three little girls.
They got them next morning at the family breakfast and enjoyed them
all through the meal. Before it ended the mother was called away, and
little M. was sitting rather solitary with her scent-bottle and the
remains of her breakfast. And out of the pure well of the little girl’s
heart came this, intended for nobody’s ear, “Dear mother, you are _too_
good!” Think of the joy of the mother who should overhear her little
child murmuring over the first primrose of the year, “Dear God, you are
_too_ good!” Children are so imitative, that if they hear their parents
speak out continually their joys and fears, their thanks and wishes,
they too will have many things to say.
Another point in this connection: the little German child hears and
speaks many times a day of _der liebe Gott_; to be sure he addresses
Him as “_Du_,” but _du_ is part of his everyday speech; the circle of
the very dear and intimate is hedged in by the magic _du_. So with the
little French child, whose thought and word are ever of _le bon Dieu_;
he also says _Tu_, but that is how he speaks to those most endeared
to him. But the little English child is thrust out in the cold by an
archaic mode of address, reverent in the ears of us older people,
but forbidding, we may be sure, to the child. Then, for the Lord’s
Prayer, what a boon would be a truly reverent translation of it into
the English of to-day. To us, who have learned to spell it out, the
present form is dear, almost sacred; but we must not forget that it is
after all only a translation; and is, perhaps, the most archaic piece
of English in modern use: “which art,”[5] commonly rendered “chart,”
means nothing for a child. “Hallowed” is the speech of a strange tongue
to him--not much more to us; “trespasses” is a semi-legal term, never
likely to come into his everyday talk, and no explanations will make
“Thy” have the same force for him as “your.” To make a child utter
his prayers in a strange speech is to put up a barrier between him
and his “Almighty Lover.” Again, might we not venture to teach our
children to say “dear God”? A parent, surely, can believe that no
austerely reverential style can be so sweet in the Divine Father’s ears
as the appeal to “dear God” for sympathy in joy and help in trouble,
which flows naturally from the little child who is “used to God.”
Let children grow up aware of the constant, immediate, joy-giving,
joy-taking Presence in the midst of them, and you may laugh at all
assaults of “infidelity,” which is foolishness to him who knows his God
as--only far better than--he knows father or mother, wife or child.
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