Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
So said the author of “Tom Brown” in an address to Rugby School
delivered on a recent Quinquagesima Sunday. This is plain speaking;
education is only worthy of the name as it teaches this lesson; and it
is a lesson which should be learnt in the home or ever the child sets
foot in any other school of life. It is an insult to children to say
they are too young to understand this for which we are sent into the
world. A boy of five, a great-grandson of Dr. Arnold, was sitting at
the piano with his mother, choosing his Sunday hymn; he chose “Thy will
be done,” and, as his special favourite, the verse beginning, “Renew
my will from day to day.” The choice of hymn and verse rather puzzled
his mother, who had a further glimpse into the world of child-thought
when the little fellow said wistfully, “Oh, dear, it’s very hard to do
God’s work!” The difference between doing and bearing was not plain to
him, but the battle and struggle and strain of life already pressed
on the spirit of the “careless, happy child.” That an evil spiritual
personality can get at their thoughts, and incite them to “be naughty,”
children learn all too soon, and understand, perhaps, better than we
do. Then, they are cross, “naughty,” separate, sinful, needing to be
healed as truly as the hoary sinner, and much more aware of their need,
because the tender soul of the child, like an infant’s skin, is fretted
by spiritual soreness. “It’s very kind of God to forgive me so often;
I’ve been naughty so many times to-day,” said a sad little sinner of
six, not at all because any one else had been at the pains to convince
her of naughtiness. Even “Pet Marjorie’s” buoyancy is not proof against
this sad sense of shortcoming:--
“Yesterday I behaved extremely ill in God’s most holy church, for I
would never attend myself nor let Isabella attend, ... and it was the
very same _Devil_ that tempted Job that tempted me, I am sure; but he
resisted Satan, though he had boils and many other misfortunes which I
have escaped.”--(At six!)
We must needs smile at the little “crimes,” but we must not smile too
much, and let children be depressed with much “naughtiness” when they
should live in the instant healing, in the dear Name, of the Saviour of
the world.
FOOTNOTES:
[4] “Memoirs of Arthur Hamilton.” Messrs. Kegan Paul & Co.
[5] Catholics say “who art.”
CHAPTER VII
_THE PARENT AS SCHOOLMASTER_
“The schoolmaster will make him sit up!” “Sit up,” that is, “come when
he’s called,” apparently, for the remark concerned a young person who
went on spinning his top with nonchalance, ignoring an intermittent
stream of objurgations from his mother, whose view was that bedtime
had arrived. Circumstances alter cases, but is it unheard of in higher
ranks of life to trust to the schoolmaster to make a child “sit up,”
after a good deal of mental and moral sprawling about at home?
“Oh, he’s a little fellow yet; he will know better by-and-by.”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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