Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“My view is, let children have a delightful childhood. Time enough for
restraint and contradiction when they go to school.”
“We do not hold with punishing children; love your children, and let
them alone, is our principle.”
“They will meet with hardness enough in the world. Childhood shall have
no harsh memories for them.”
“School will break them in. Let them grow like young colts till the
time comes to break them. All young things should be free to kick
about.”
“What’s bred in the bone must come out in the flesh. I do not care much
for all this clipping and shaping of children. Destroys individuality.”
“When he’s older, he will know better. Time cures many faults.”
And so on; we might fill pages with the wise things people say,
who, for one excellent reason or another, prefer to leave it to the
schoolmaster to make a child “sit up.” And does the schoolmaster live
up to his reputation? how far does he succeed with the child who
comes to him with no self-management? His real and proud successes
are with the children who have been trained to “sit up” at home. His
pleasure in such children is unbounded; the pains he takes with them
unlimited; the successful careers he is able to launch them upon exceed
the ambition of those most wildly ambitious of human beings (dare we
say it?)--parents, quiet, sensible, matter-of-fact parents. But the
schoolmaster takes little credit to himself for these happy results.
Schoolmasters and schoolmistresses are modest people, though they are
not always credited with their virtues.
“You can do anything with So-and-so; his parents have turned him out so
well.” Observe, the master takes little credit to himself (by no means
so much as he deserves); and why? Experience makes fools wise; and what
then of those who add experience to wisdom? “People send us their cubs
to lick into shape, and what can we do?” Now the answer to this query
concerns parents rather closely: what and how much can the schoolmaster
do to make the boy “sit up” who has not been to the manner bred?
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