Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“Oh, I know he hasn’t; but then, poor child, he can’t help it! ‘What’s
bred in the bone,’ you know; and we are feather-brained on both sides
of the house.”
Now the practical educational question of our day is just this, Can he
help it? or, Can his parents help it? or, Must the child sit down for
life with whatever twist he has inherited? The fact is, many of us,
professional teachers, have been taking aim rather beside the mark;
we talk as if the development of certain faculties were the chief
object of education; and we point to our results, intellectual, moral,
æsthetic, physical, with a--“See there, what culture can effect!” But
we forget that the child has inborn cravings after all we have given
him. Just as the healthy child must have his dinner and his bed, so
too does he crave for knowledge, perfection, beauty, power, society;
and all he wants is opportunity. Give him opportunities of loving and
learning, and he will love and learn, for “’tis his nature to.” Whoever
has taken note of the sweet reasonableness, the quick intelligence, the
bright imaginings of a child, will think the fuss we make about the
right studies for developing these is like asking, How shall we get a
hungry man to eat his dinner?
Many a man got his turn for natural science because, as a boy, he
lived in the country, and had a chance to observe living things and
their ways. Nobody took pains to develop his faculty; all he had was
opportunity. If the boy’s mind is crammed with other matters, he
has no opportunity, and you may meet men of culture who have lived
most of their lives in the country, and don’t know a thrush from a
blackbird. I know of a woman who has developed both a metaphysical
and a literary turn, because, as a girl of ten, she was allowed to
browse on old volumes of the _Spectator_, the most telling part of her
education, she thinks. Again, I watched quite lately an extraordinary
educational result of opportunity. A friend, interested in a Working
Boys’ Club, undertook to teach a class to model in clay. There was no
selection made; the boys were mill-boys, taken as they came in, with
no qualifications, except that, as their teacher said, they had not
been spoilt--that is, they had not been taught to draw in the ordinary
way. She gave them clay, a model, one or two modelling tools, and
also, being an artist, the _feeling_ of the object to be copied. After
half-a-dozen lessons, the things they produced cannot be called less
than works of art; and delightful it was to see the vigour and spirit
they worked with, the artistic instinct which caught the sentiment
of the object, as the creases made by a little foot which make a
child’s shoe a thing to kiss. This lady maintains that she only _let
out_ what was in the boys; but she did more, her own art enthusiasm
forced out artistic effort. Even taking into account the enthusiasm
of the teacher--I wish we might always count on that factor--this
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