Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
remains a fair case to prove our point, which is, give them opportunity
and direction, and children will do the greater part of their own
education, intellectual, æsthetic, even moral, by reason of the
wonderfully balanced desires, powers, and affections which go to make
up human nature.
A cheerful doctrine this, which should help to swell the ranks of
the unemployed. Outlets for their energies, a little direction, a
little control, and then we may sit by with folded hands and see them
do it. But, in fact, there are two things to be done: “powers to be
developed--where a little of our help goes a long way; and character
to be formed”--and here children are as clay in the hands of the
potter, absolutely dependent on their parents. Disposition, intellect,
genius, come pretty much by nature; but character is an achievement,
the one practical achievement possible to us for ourselves and for
our children; and all real advance in family or individual is along
the lines of character. Our great people are great simply by reason
of their force of character. For this, more than for their literary
successes, Carlyle and Johnson are great. Boswell’s “Life” is, and
perhaps deserves to be, more of a literary success than anything of his
master’s; but what figure does he make after all?
Greatness and littleness belong to character, and life would be dull
were we all cast in one mould; but how come we to differ? Surely by
reason of our inherited qualities. It is hereditary tendencies which
result in character. The man who is generous, obstinate, hot-tempered,
devout, is so, on the whole, because that strain of character runs in
his family. Some progenitor got a bent from his circumstances towards
fault or virtue, and that bent will go on repeating itself to the end
of the chapter. To save that single quality from the exaggeration
which would destroy the balance of qualities we call sanity, two
counter-forces are provided: marriage into alien families, and
_education_.
We come round now to the point we started from. If the development of
character rather than of faculty is the main work of education, and
if people are born, so to speak, ready-made, with all the elements of
their after-character in them, certain to be developed by time and
circumstances, what is left for education to do?
Very commonly, the vote is, do nothing; though there are three or four
ways of arriving at that conclusion.
As, What’s the good? The fathers have eaten sour grapes; the children’s
teeth _must_ be set on edge. Tommy is obstinate as a little mule--but
what would you have? So is his father. So have been all the Joneses,
time out of mind; and Tommy’s obstinacy is taken as a fact, not to be
helped nor hindered.
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