Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
the more finely he is himself organised. Fill him with the enthusiasm
of humanity. Whatever gifts he has, let them be cultivated as “gifts
for men.” “The thing best worth living for is _to be of use_,” was well
said lately by a thinker who has left us. The child into whose notion
of life that idea is fitted will not grow up to find time heavy on
his hands. The life blessed with an enthusiasm will not be dull; but
a weight must go into the opposite scale to balance even the noblest
enthusiasm. As we have said, open for him some door of natural science,
some way of mechanical skill; in a word, give the child an absorbing
pursuit and a fascinating hobby, and you need not fear eccentric or
unworthy developments. It seems well to dwell at length on this
subject of eccentricity, because the world loses a great deal by its
splendid failures, the beautiful human beings who through one sort of
eccentricity or another become ineffectual for the raising of the rest
of us.
FOOTNOTES:
[6] “Vom Vater hab’ ich die Statur,
Des Lebens ernstes Führen;
Vom Mütterchen die Frohnatur,
Und Lust zu fabuliren.”
CHAPTER IX
_THE CULTURE OF CHARACTER_
PART II
Suppose the parent see that the formation of character is the ultimate
object of education; see, too, that character is, in the rough, the
inherited tendencies of the child, modified by his surroundings, but
that character may be debased or ennobled by education; that it is
the parents’ part to distinguish the first faint budding of family
traits--to greet every fine trait as the highest sort of family
possession to be nourished and tended with care; to keep up at the
same time the balance of qualities by bringing forward that which is
of little account--the more so when they must deliver their child from
eccentricity, pitfall to the original and forceful nature;--suppose
they have taken all this into the _rôle_ of their duties, there yet
remains much for parents to do.
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