Plutarch's essays and miscellanies, Vol. 3 (of 5) : $b Comprising all his works collected under the title of "Morals"Plutarch
Philosophy
Plutarch's essays and miscellanies, Vol. 3 (of 5) : $b Comprising all his works collected under the title of "Morals"
Plutarch
Classical literature; Essays; Ethics; Philosophy
7. It is therefore very needful to throw off those ill dispositions,
as being very grievous and troublesome to their parents, and more
destructive to children in respect of the ill example. Besides, it
occasions many strange censures and much obloquy amongst men. For they
will not be apt to imagine that so near and intimate relations as
brothers, that have eaten of the same bread and all along participated
of the same common maintenance, and who have conversed so familiarly
together, should break out into contention, except they were conscious
to themselves of a great deal of naughtiness. For it must be some
great matter that violates the bonds of natural affection; whence it
is that such breaches are so hardly healed up again. For, as those
things which are joined together by art, being parted, may by the
same art be compacted again, but if there be a fracture in a natural
body, there is much difficulty in setting and uniting the broken
parts; so, if friendships that through a long tract of time have been
firmly and closely contracted come once to be violated, no endeavors
will bring them together any more. And brothers, when they have once
broke natural affection, are hardly made true friends again; or, if
there be some kind of peace made betwixt them, it is like to prove but
superficial only, and such as carries a filthy festering scar along
with it. Now all enmity between man and man which is attended with
these perturbations of quarrelsomeness, passion, envy, recording of
an injury, must needs be troublesome and vexatious; but that which is
harbored against a brother, with whom they communicate in sacrifices
and other religious rites of their parents, with whom they have the
same common charnel-house and the same or a near habitation, is much
more to be lamented,—especially if we reflect upon the horrid madness
of some brothers, in being so prejudiced against their own flesh and
blood, that his face and person once so welcome and familiar, his voice
all along from his childhood as well beloved as known, should on a
sudden become so very detestable. How loudly does this reproach their
ill-nature and savage dispositions, that, whilst they behold other
brethren lovingly conversing in the same house and dieting together
at the same table, managing the same estate and attended by the same
servants, they alone divide friends, choose contrary acquaintance,
resolving to abandon every thing that their brother may approve of? Now
it is obvious to any to understand, that new friends and companions may
be compassed and new kindred may come in when the old, like decayed
weapons and worn-out utensils, are lost and gone. But there is no more
regaining of a lost brother, than of a hand that is cut off or an eye
that is beaten out. The Persian woman therefore spake truth, when she
preferred the saving her brother’s life before her very children’s,
alleging that she was in a possibility of having more children if she
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