Sometimes he is his own most severe judge and then on other occasions he
is grossly indulgent to his faults.
His isolation causes him to construct ideals that can not possibly be
realized in ordinary life. But he is more than ready to blame those who
fall short of them, while making no effort to duplicate their struggles.
He makes the sad mistake, as we have seen in the chapter on effrontery,
of taking all his chimeras for realities and is angry at his inability
to make other people see them in the same light.
He is, moreover, of a very trustful disposition and prone to the making
of confidences. But when he attempts them his infirmity prevents him and
he suffers under the inhibition.
All his mental processes, as we have seen, tend toward hypochondria,
unless his sense of truth can be called into play.
One can easily see then that this daily self-examination can be made
quite a difficult affair by all these conflicting tendencies.
It is for this very reason that it is so necessary that this examination
should be rigorously undertaken every day and with all the good faith of
which we are possest.
It is because they do not ignore their own weaknesses that the men
endowed with poise become what one has psychologically termed "forces,"
that is to say people who are masters of a power that renders them
superior to the rest of the world.
RESOLUTION
After as minute and as honest an examination as we can make of our own
actions, it will be of great benefit to make definite resolutions for
the morrow.
This is a matter of great importance.
The timid man, by seriously resolving to perform the actions that he
ought and by planning the accomplishment of some definite step, will
unconsciously strengthen his own will-power.
He will increase it still more by making up his mind to leave no stone
unturned to conquer himself.
For instance, he proposes to make a certain journey, or to pay a certain
call, which he dreads very much, and falls asleep while repeating to
himself: "To-morrow I will go there! I will carry the thing through with
assurance!"
Conceding the magnetic power of words, the acquisition of courage and of
confidence are necessary corollaries.
Ideas imprest upon the mind at the moment that one is falling asleep
develop during the night by a species of incubation, and on the morrow
present themselves to us quite naturally in the guise of a duty much
less hard to perform than we had imagined.
In the case where such a resolution awakens an unpleasant emotion in the
hearts of the timid, they should repeat earnestly the sentences that
tend to composure and should seek the aid of the means we have indicated
for attaining it.
PREPARATION
In order to strengthen one's resolution it is a good thing every morning
to map out one's day, for the purpose of acquiring poise.
All one's combinations should be worked out with this valuable conquest
in mind.
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