Prejudices, fifth seriesMencken, H. L. (Henry Louis)
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Prejudices, fifth series
Mencken, H. L. (Henry Louis)
American essays -- 20th century; American literature -- History and criticism; Literature -- History and criticism
As a professional fanatic for free thought and free speech, I can only
view all this uproar in the _Frauenzimmer_ with high satisfaction. It
gives me delight to see a taboo violated, and that delight is doubled
when the taboo is one that is wholly senseless. Sex is more important
to women than to men, and so they ought to be free to discuss it as
they please, and to hatch and propagate whatever ideas about it occur
to them. Moreover, I can see nothing but nonsense in the doctrine
that their concern with such matters damages their charm. So far as
I am concerned, a woman who knows precisely what a Graafian follicle
is is just as charming as one who doesn’t--just as charming, and
far less dangerous. Charm in women, indeed, is a variable star, and
shows different colors at different times. When their chief mark was
ignorance, then the most ignorant was the most charming; now that
they begin to think deeply and indignantly there is charm in their
singular astuteness. But I am inclined to believe that they have not
yet attained to a genuine astuteness in the new field of sex. To the
contrary, it seems to me that a fundamental error contaminates their
whole dealing with the subject, and that is the error of assuming that
sexual questions, whether social, physiological, or pathological, are
of vast and even paramount importance to mankind in general--in brief,
that sex is really a first-rate matter.
I doubt it. I believe that in this department men show better judgment
than women, if only because their information is older and their
experience wider. Their tendency is to dismiss the whole thing
lightly, to reduce sex to the lowly estate of an afterthought and a
recreation, and under that tendency there is a sound instinct. I do not
believe that the lives of normal men are much colored or conditioned,
either directly or indirectly, by purely sexual considerations. I
believe that nine-tenths of them would carry on all the activities
which engage them now, and with precisely the same humorless diligence,
if there were not a woman in the world. The notion that man would not
work if he lacked an audience, and that the audience must be a woman,
seems to me to be a hollow sentimentality. Men work because they want
to eat, because they want to feel secure, because they long to shine
among their fellows, and for no other reason. A man may crave his
wife’s approbation, or some other woman’s approbation, of his social
graces, of his taste, of his generosity and courage, of his general
dignity in the world, but long before he ever gives thought to such
things and long after he has forgotten them he craves the approbation
of his fellow men. Above all, he craves the approbation of his fellow
craftsmen--the men who understand exactly what he is trying to do, and
are expertly competent to judge his doing of it. Can you imagine a
surgeon putting the good opinion of his wife above the good opinion of
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